The reason I wrote on this subject today was because I was reminded of one of Creflo Dollar's messages that I was watching like a couple of weeks back or so. He also made a very good point - That the people who are hard to love are that way because they don't have enough love in their lives, and we need to give them that love. That made a lot of sense to me. The example I'm going to give probably isn't a very good one, but I'm going to give it anyway: I remember when I was like 15 or so, and my friends and I went onto this program called, "Paltalk." It's a voice chat system online. The first several chat rooms we went into on this program weren't too friendly to us to say the least. So, what came out of this situation? We just started a rampage on there... We started going from chat to chat just running all of the people out, yelling profanities and what not. I remember at times in certain chat rooms people would message me privately and kill me with kindness. So, what would I do? I would make up the excuse to my friends, "This room isn't worth our time, let's go." That was my way of cutting that person a break and not giving them anymore trouble. That's probably not the best example, considering it's an online example, but it's the only one that I can think of at the moment. The point is that people are hard to love because they weren't loved, and when they are loved that changes everything. I didn't stop doing that kind of stuff until I found the love of God in my life. All I ever wanted was what everyone wants - To be loved, and God's love is unconditional and ours should also be towards others.